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Rosemary (Cardillo) Cody, formerly Incarnato, 84, of Webster, New York, passed away peacefully on April 5, 2026, surrounded by her loving family. She was predeceased by her daughter, Regina Chiaramonte; her sister, Beverly Cardillo; and her parents, August and Sarah Cardillo.
She is survived by her loving husband, Tom; her son, Christopher Incarnato; her stepchildren, Tom (Shawna) Cody, Danielle (Steve) Camp, Julie (Brent) Dioguardi, and Chris (Wendy) Cody; and several grandchildren.
Rosemary spent many years as a hairdresser, Deaf interpreter, and realtor before retiring. She found her greatest joy in spending time with her family and being active in her church. She will be remembered for her kindness, resilience, and the way she always put others before herself. She will be deeply missed and forever remembered in the hearts of her family and friends.
The family would like to express their deepest gratitude to the staff and health professionals at the Edna Tina Wilson Living Center for their compassionate care and support.
A memorial service will be held Thursday, April 9, 2026 at 11:00 AM at The Well Church, 335 Helendale Rd, Rochester, NY 14609.
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