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Lillian Marie Wickum
1940 2026

Lillian Marie Wickum

Nov 22, 1940 — Jul 18, 2026

Webster, NY

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LILLIAN MARIE WICKUM

(Lill,Lilly) peacefully passed on July 18, 2026. She was born on November 22, 1940. She is predeceased by her loving husband Gordon E. Wickum; parents, Joseph Ulsamer and Marie (Mogg) Ulsamer.

She is survived by daughter, Linda Boye; son, David (Susan) Wickum; grandchildren, Brian Boye, Lindsey (Frank) Aquino and step granddaughter Lauren Bonacci; sister, Elizabeth (Richard) Schaff; nephew, Derek (Letha) Schaff; and niece, Karin Schaff, along with other family and friends.

Lillian enjoyed gardening, cooking, baking, boating, and swimming. Lilly was proud of her German heritage and attended local Oktoberfest celebrations. In her career years, she enjoyed becoming a Beautician and later transitioned into a Baker at Wegmans Bakery. We will always remember Lillian as an exceptionally devoted mother and grandmother as she always put her family first.

Lillian‘s Memorial Mass will be held July 31st at Holy Trinity Church, 1460 Ridge Rd., Webster, NY 14580 at 10:30 AM.

In Lillian’s memory, in lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Pines of Peace Comfort Home in Ontario, NY where she lovingly spent her final days receiving excellent care and sincere compassion. 

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